Your Spanking Session

I enjoy spanking you; I was born to it. I would rather be spanking than anything else. It takes a lady of my wholehearted commitment to make it truly enjoyable, and I like my spankees to come with a good sense of fun and humour, displaying honesty and respect.

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Your Session

Your discipline will take place in my own home, and it is entirely a domestic setting. I wear normal clothes that I feel comfortable in – I know what is appropriate for a disciplinary session. However, as I am six foot and always wear high-heels be warned, I will tower OVER most of you.

While I am a very friendly lady, please don’t confuse my amiability for weakness. Once you go up those stairs you are on your way to the spanking you want and need. A session with a disciplinarian who is as committed and able as me is not an event you will easily find elsewhere, and while I will of course accept and work to your limits, I will also encourage you to move to a new level – and remember: I can give a long, hard spanking with just my hand.

Nor do I need a reason to spank you; I am very capable of finding reasons to spank any man. However if you have faults to admit, if you have a real need for genuine discipline and a severe punishment is needed, then that is what you will get. You won’t be the first man I’ve reduced to tears.

“That was the most cathartic spanking I have ever had. It was also the first time I was trying not to earn extras of the cane. I normally like to earn extras, I love being naughty, but you cane so hard I knew straight away I did not want any more than I was already due. I was truly desperate to stay still – knowing that moving would mean having to take so many more! You’re old Nanny certainly knew how to teach discipline techniques! It was perfect though – thank you so much”

M.J. Cambridgeshire

Despite that ability, the session will be as we have previously discussed (in which you will have also advised me whether you can be marked), and I can spank you lightly if you’re new to discipline or prefer lighter spankings. Just be aware, that should you be brave enough to ask for it, you will find I can thrash you much harder than you can bear.

Nonetheless, although M.J. above is right and I do cane extremely well (and have all the other traditional spanking implements to hand), my speciality is prolonged, traditional over the knee hand spanking. A typical session therefore would generally be formed of a 15 minute warm up hand-spanking before I start your main spanking of approximately 30 to 35 minutes – which will also be a hand spanking throughout, albeit much harder.  After that, if you had indicated the need for it and I feel that you require a more severe reminder for good behaviour, then that is exactly what you will get on top. I may take a hairbrush, or bath brush, slipper, cane, strap or even a crop to your deserving backside.

And if you have come for real and severe discipline, I recommend you read this testimonial MATTHEW’S FEEDBACK – and yes, he did come back.

Whatever your need, you will not only leave here having reached into the ‘zone’ but you will still be climbing as you drive home.

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Areas of discipline


Naughty boys will find themselves across my lap for a prolonged hand spanking.  You will learn your lesson, young man. Repeat offenders will feel the sting of my hairbrush.


I’ve had enough of your classroom antics.  Clearly, no one has taught you proper behavior, but I will – I’m a teacher! Will I choose to paddle your bottom in front of the whole class, tawse your hands, or send you to the headmistress’ study for a dose of the cane? Either way, you will learn!


Skulking around the girls changing room will earn you a dose of the plimsoll on your bottom. Those tight shorts will afford you very little protection. Perhaps the girls you were peeping on will each take a turn swatting you.


The unclean will not be tolerated, and you will be taught proper hygiene. After I have dealt with you, your snotty face and your lice-ridden head, you will once again be fit to be around others. I firmly believe that a red, sore bottom is one of the hallmarks of proper health and that is just what you will leave my office with.


You are under my care and supervision. I will not have my reputation as a first class Nanny ruined by your poor comportment.  Impeccable attire and manners shall be on display at all times. Don’t make me resort to harsh measures. Just behave!

Stable Boy

Like myself, my horses are of superior breeding and require superior care. Any lapses in your duties or care shall be dealt with swiftly and severely. As you know, my crops and whips are always at hand.