Hello all my Spankos, I wanted to make you all aware that I will off on my holidays on the 3rd November and will not return until December 7th. If...
So for those of you that haven’t seen this topic on my blog I’m posting it again.
I pinned this to my Twitter and in just over 7 days it had over 26,000 views and was the talk of many discussions on forums, Twitter and private messages.
I was threatened with an injunction if I didn’t remove it from this blog and Twitter, I decide when I remove something and will not be threatened into doing something when there is nothing within my blog that is defamatory and untrue.
Before I posted this I ran it by my lawyers to make sure I wasn’t doing anything wrong, if the people that I speak of within it have an issue then do your best sunshine’s….I will carry on.
Last Monday my Twitter account @Havilland0 was suspended and as of today has not been reinstated…I can only think that they couldn’t get me to bow down so went through Twitter.
As you can see, I have had to open another account so if you do look at Twitter my new account is @MissOtk
Watch this space for a new exciting advertising platform for ladies to advertise and it’ll be totally free….the new site will be up and running soon.
I am also in the middle of updating my own website so look out for that too.
Thank you all for your support.
Miss Ophelia x
Dear friends,followers and devotees.
Many of you have undoubtably noticed my diminished presence this year – on message boards, advertising platforms, social media, session availability, and the spanking scene in general. I feel that given your interest, loyalty and kindness over the years, you are owed an explanation of events.
First, let me say how much I have missed you! The spanking scene and my role as a domestic disciplinarian have been, and continue to be, lifelong passions – the very same which has bought many of us together over the years and across the globe. I am so excited to reconnect with you and to forge new and rewarding relationships with those of you I haven’t yet met.
You know what I want!
You know what you deserve !
Now, on to the nitty-gritty and the explanation of what has happened.
For many years I have successfully advertised on the spanking website “itc-mag.com” and participated on its message board forum. Many individuals use this forum to find local referrals and get reviews of the disciplinarians who advertise on the site.
On the 25th of September 2017 a post on the ITC – mag message board from the user “Lady Pandora” maliciously and falsely claimed that I was a retired escort who formally worked in Japanese “pink bars” along with all the false statements about myself.
Why I cannot say what lady Pandora’s motivations were for the unsolicited and inappropriate attack (this is not the first time she has attempted a petty and immature offence against me, but she seems incapable of acting in any other way), one could speculate that it was professional jealousy over the stellar reputation that I have cultivated over the years bearing in mind the same woman has on numerous attempts tried and failed to bring down other professional disciplinarians in much the same way she did me.
Within minutes of the offensive and defamatory post going up on the message board I contacted the website owner via email to ask that he remove it.
For reasons best known only to the website owner the refused my request and decided to leave the offending post online for four days for many people to see, and in the many replies on the thread to the offending post from people that are members of the site in support of me asking the website owner to delete the post they simply deleted those supportive comments leaving up the original offending one by Lady Pandora. Some members even emailed the website owner directly asking them to remove it …those emails were ignored.
After the post being left up for 4 days I made the decision to seek legal advice and in doing so instructed a solicitor, as I could not countenance Lady Pandora’s post or the website owners turning a blind eye to her defamatory remarks.
I was unable to obtain the real name and address of Lady Pandora who posted the defamatory remarks of the forum (despite requests for this information) and who I believe is exactly the very same person who has hidden behind the online persona of Lady Pandora, and so I thought the only course of action to clear my good name was to bring a lawsuit against the offending parties forcing the issue.
I simply do not understand and cannot explain why the website owner effectively protected Lady Pandora. I’ll let you draw your own conclusions here.
Having issued proceedings, the website owner agreed to post a clear and unequivocal apology on the website for 30 days despite the initial profound resistance and I include it here for your review.
IN SEPTEMBER 2017 I, THE OWNER OF THIS WEBSITE, FAILED TO REMOVE A POST WRITTEN BY LADY PANDORA WHICH CONTAINED THE DEFAMATORY REMARKS THAT MISS OPHELIA DE HAVILLAND HAS WORKED AS A HOSTESS IN JAPANESE PINK BARS AND IS A “RETIRED ESCORT”.
I ACCEPT THAT I HAVE NO GOOD REASON FOR FAILING TO REMOVE THESE DEFAMATORY REMARKS AS SOON AS I BECAME AWARE OF THEM, WHOCH I ACCEPT WERE FALSE. I TAKE THIS OPPORTUNITY TO APOLOGISE UNRESERVEDLY TO MISS HAVILLAND FOR THE UNNECESSARY DISTRESS AND HARM I HAVE CAUSED”.
The apology has now been removed as the 30 days are up but along with the apology going up. Regretably however, I was subsequently banned from using the website and advertising there again.
Thank you for all your lovely messages over the past year in support of my fight, I just want to add that I never wanted matters to escalate in this way and I certainly didn’t want a year of legalities taking up my life, all I ever wanted was the site owner to remove the offending and defamatory post and after they refused I felt that I had only one course of action to take.
It seems such a shame that so many loyal contributors to the website has now been banned and yet the person that has bullied and defamed so many women and men over so many years and is such a trouble maker is still allowed to contribute to the site.
Sadly in life there are bullies but there is always going to be that one person that will stand up to them…bullies are bullies because they hate themselves and feel they need to hurt others to feel better about themselves.
Now, onto happier things….I have a new free advertising platform getting built for all the lovely ladies we have that love to discipline, more news on that soon.
This site will be updated shortly too with new photos, content etc.
I am looking forward to corresponding with you and seeing you in the near future.
We both know what you deserve and I look forward to giving it to you!
With my very best wishes, thanks and hugs
Miss Ophelia de Havilland